26. Somehow like Yun has suggested, she could be in a 'drift
stage'. Romance and bread.
Most women would love the 'romantic' kinda love which they probably
so furiously engaged in at their much younger days...
She's somehow at a 'cross-over' age form mentality...
You can try Yun's suggestions of 'conquering' her, but chances are
she've got an upperhand of the relationship. You can try... But it
might or might not work, depending on her nature...
She's melted by your 'honey treatment', that's why she's with you..
The 'romance'. Partially like what Yun has suggested, she choose to
remain in 'honeymoon' period... At least for now?
She probably have this 'Vision of Change'... An 'insight' that you
would change one day... Much like other of her Ex did... She's
enjoying the moments... But partially waiting for that day to
come...
Like Yun and MC have suggested, she don't see the 'bread' side of
you... And she thought it's quite unlikely that she'll be seeing
it, and she should be quite right... Logically, you're like 'honey'
- soft, sweet, caring... If you define the masculine factors, then
her expecting of you to 'change' would have been realised... It
could put her to much defence.
For a cross-over from a 'honeymoon' (temp?) relationship to a
proper relationship, you'll need to establish to an extent the
factors Yun have suggested... The 2 key factors would be... 1. How
she can accept it (Her mentality?) 2. How you bring across that
'change'...
Advice would be to bring it across at a slower pace. Much not to
her immediate attention and awareness. It's also important for you
to maintain your 'original qualities' (honey) as you bring about
the additional changes... As she would probably be 'reviewing' them
later...
If you can't do the cross-over from 'pure romance' to the 'bread'
thing... You should just be enjoying your moments with her...
(anyway, the above mentioned is really easier said than done...)
She would probably go for another when...
1. She thinks that you've changed and failed her criteria.
2. Her mentality has switched over to 'bread' and you still haven't
meet her 'bread' requirements.
3. A better option comes along. (This would depends on her nature
and mentality again as to if she would opt for such.)
